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onward to the land of golden sunsets

November 8, 2010

another day of travel packing and dragging suitcases to another train. thinking of where we’ll be next but first getting out of here.

downtown reno

reno bus station

and of course a cowboys pickup truck

new cowboys horse

pretty cool buses but i think some of them are diesel fuel, don’t remember if this is one of them. but soon our delayed train, yes another one and the same old excuse freight train in front of them. but the train station is comfortable and not too crowded.

here comes the train

baggage is still handled the old way which is pretty cool

baggage wagon

we are traveling coach because our ride is only a few hours over the sierra mountains again we get behind another freight train almost to a walking crawl. but by this time on our trip i am getting bored taking pictures out the train window but iam surprised to not find any snow in the mountains.

dead pine tree

so during our last lunch aboard amtrak while mary was chatting with another dinner across the way i drifted off watching this flower change color as the light changed.

table flower

but soon we are to arrive

rocks & trees

but none too soon for my taste we pull into our final train destination. martineze,ca.

martineze station

martineze station clock tower

how do we get to our motel. mary has the station manager call us a cab but along comes one named ‘the chosen one’ whom we hail. we feel lucky to have found him and  arrange to have him pick us up in the morning and return us to the station for our three hour thruway bus ride.

 

 

by the sea

 

it seems like paradise after being cooped up in the train for almost to the hour a week. there wasn’t one train where everything worked, no lounge car had working restrooms and our last train from reno didn’t have a door that closed between cars and i wondered what it was like going through the 4 mile tunnel from denver, the train crew warns people not to travel between cars then. but our tunnels weren’t than long but still how do they keep these cars in service?

but here we are at least for a week before ending our trip on virgin america going home. what we came to do, get married happens on the day mary had wanted. monday we did a location scout to find our place and i think we did alright. it was a sunny afternoon when we started getting dressed and ready then the fog rolled in and we thought shi…. but just as soon as we started the ceremony the sun came back out warming us up and making for some pretty cool pictures.

wedding ceremony spot

that’s mendocino in the background and the ocean crashing on the rocks below. so now we are man and wife. who would have thought that 6 years ago this is the way it would turn out? hey you never know

outside our window

is life art or is art life? does it really matter?

 

Granby to Reno

November 5, 2010

Getting ready to move on to our next destination Reno, NV we wait at the Amtrak station for our two-hour delayed train. It seems there is always something happening to trains. The first delay we had was a two-hour delay from Chicago to Granby; we got stuck behind a freight train that had engine trouble. Seems freight has the right of way, that’s capitalism for you.

This happen again leaving Granby.

Granby waiting room

We were pleasantly surprised to receive a phone call from Amtrak in our inn informing us of a problem. Amtrak has a good web site and phone system keeping travelers up to date on schedules, their 1 800 USA Rail or status on the web. Very cool.

Good by Granby hello Reno.

train arriving

hopping a ride to reno

But soon enough our train came along and we were on our way to meeting mary’s friends in Reno. It had been a long time since they had seen each other, as they were part of mary’s camping and work group where people who worked together camped out on weekends at some country park.

We’ve been told the next leg through Utah would be one of the best scenic parts of the trip and it was pretty cool.

byers cynByers cyn

Byers cyn

It was nice for me to come along and meet all these different people in mary’s life, after all I was an important part of mary’s life now. This great American adventure had a purpose as we were on our way to be married in Mendocino, ca by mary’s best friend from collage.

My friends are scattered all across America and none along this route. We had originally planed to drive across America in our newly restored 1970 Mercury XR 7 convertible but that had been delayed by numerous events and delays. The car will be on the road soon but the time and weather just didn’t permit doing the trek at this time.

and this way we get to see a part of this great country without being exausted all the time. so we traveled through utah in a different mind set.

Ducks in Colorado river

canyon wall

Utah

Colorado river Utah

Mary had decided we’d get married on our anniversary; one so I might have a better time remembering when it was and two; it would be more romantic that way. I had no objections to what ever she wanted. That is a big part of our life being able to allow the other person to get what they want. Mary’s good at that and I am learning how to allow that to happen. This relationship is not all about me and that’s a good thing.

She has brought so much joy into my life and the idea of letting go, laying back and allowing her to have her way has brought me such joy, that had I been I charge I might have muddled with things and screwed things up. Allowing is a pretty good way of being. As I said it’s not all about me.
as night falls on our window it starts to rain

sunset in utah

rain drops on window

Reno is a strange town. We were told the train station was in the middle of town and the train actually blocked traffic but that wasn’t the case as they have renovated the train tracks and put up an exhibit in the station showing artifacts from wild west Reno, old bottles, shards of pottery and lots of pictures.

We were there during the election and one of the biggest fears is that Sharon Engels might be elected as a senator and it was really too close an election. Her message seemed to be electing someone ignorant of government role in our society and made it smaller, a popular position in this election, some have won office on that same platform. I wonder what has happen to  ‘an informed elect’ that is the basis of our democracy. Oh well.

The only thing to see in Reno for me is Lake Tahoe. Rose took us for a drive up there and a glass of wine lakeside. A lovely sunny afternoon and I can see why people say it’s a jewel of the west.  The rest of Reno evolves around the casinos and gambling. But mary’s friends are nice and we enjoy our couple of days of visiting, meeting the grown young women who were children when last seen. Life moves on. As we do, continuing along the tracks to Martinez, Ca our last train station, now switching to a bus up California way to Willits, ca gateway to the redwoods.  Then being picked up and driven to Mendocino our final destination for our marriage.

That is the point of this whole trip. To be married by mary’s best friend who couldn’t come to what is now referred to as our ‘intent’ ceremony where we spoke our vows to love and cherish each other, done at the house in New Jersey in front of friends and family.

but more on reno lake tahoe later………….

wedding invitation, sounds simple?

August 19, 2010

when mary and i do weddings the part i always love to do are the details, like rings, shoes and bouquets. the same thing when i worked at WNET was the gifts on pledge break, no producers just the cameraman, stagehand myself and the products. loved it.

also a good time to check out my micro stuff with the 5D Mll which i’ve never done changing lenses starting with the 50mm and my adapter lenses of +4 then the +10 whoa, talk about close. but my 72mm doesn’t have a +10 the highest is a +4,+3,+2. i went with the 24-70 72mm lens opening it up to 24mm. the 50mm with the +10 was cool but didn’t show enough of the whole composition.

wedding invitation pic

wedding invitation pic

here is the one mary said she liked best. now getting here seems simple enough but looks can be deceiving.  these images don’t do the picture justice but give you a general idea of final product. it’s like those photo mags who show you pictures of the step by step photoshop actions. only problem are the pictures are too small for a human to read. well i’ll do the same here.

Screen shot

Screen shot

if you can read this i’d be surprised, but it does show you that after capture there are details needing attention. nothing just happens in 6 layers. it all began with the letter mary wrote beginning with ‘ it’s not everyday, that love enters your heart.’ then come the rings, hers was the easiest  but not a traditional wedding ring but called an ‘Eternity’ ring because it’s a band of diamonds surrounding the finger. shes going to wear her mothers wedding ring also so the two rings really go together nicely.i just wanted a plain band which after much consideration is what i went with.

but the devil is in the details and because of needing certain parts of the image in focus, not my usual forte, other parts needed blurring, ugly shadows removed and some bright spots toned down. the last thing i did here was to add the sunflower reflection to the lock face from another capture, because this one looked plain and boring.

whole lighting setup

whole lighting setup

not a pretty site is it? but wait there is more.

the pattern comes from a piece of blackwrap shown here attached to a gobo arm attached to C stand with a mafer clamp. a quick and dirty way of doing patterns something i did on CBS 60 minutes show.

but it all began with tilting the table so i had a better angle, having two of David Pogue’s book came in handy

so the altman fresnel is a source for gobo, a wall reading lamp with a 75 w frosted bulb for right fill and an MR 16 spot with frost lighting the sunflowers from camera left. the shadow in the middle is my tripod.

so just to get this shot is a half a days work. now the next thing on the list is music. mary asked what’s your favorite songs, duh. so the story goes.

new Labor of Love Pix postcard

April 23, 2010

mary just designed our new Labor of Love pix postcard

lolp postcard

now we have to find an audience for them and a few more customers.